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The original was posted on /r/tifu by /u/No_Quarter_3442 on 2025-01-27 19:01:07+00:00.

I admit I shouldn’t share these things, especially with woman friends, but I did. In 2024 I (26–M) got rejected 5 times by women I asked out. Never had a gf and recently I lost my v-card to escorts after last year’s failure.

It wasn’t an epic fail though, 5 rejections in a year doesn’t seem like a lot to me. A month? Sure. But not a year. Still, my woman friend is acting like it’s an insane amount. After telling her this, she says she’s never heard of someone getting rejected so many times in one year. While I don’t understand why she thinks 5 is a huge number of rejections, I DO understand not to share everything.

The only embarrassing thing — I didn’t even tell her THIS PART — is that I got reported to HR once by one of the women I asked out, and that’s actually why I stopped and hired an escort.

ETA: HR said I did nothing wrong and they pretty much said they only spoke with me about because they have to per their job requirements.

TLDR; I shared too much with my friend, she freaked and now isn’t talking.