

I feel like you are cutting society too much slack.
Yes, capitalists set the tone, but people in our immediate surroundings (neighbors, parents, schools) are the ones who enforce the rules.
20 years ago: You got an email? Well… you’ll see it when you open your personal/work computer.
Now: You got an email? Don’t you have a mobile phone? Every second you miss is an insult, especially if they saw you with your phone in your hand once while talking to them (you look at your phone AAAALLL THE TIME no???)

so initially it was just couchsurfing/hospitality but worse (no culture sharing aspect + it costs money)?
Damn, after reading your comment I thought airBnB came after the enshittification of couch surfing but no, they co-existed and society chose the one with money instead of culture sharing + local volunteer vetting + free accomodation.
We suck :p