Freedom can result in unexpected or maybe inconvenient initiations with a partner, but they are rare. Washing sheets more often is important. At least with me, I need the freedom of mobility to sleep. After my broken neck and back, I sleep like I’m special forces on a mission. If the fitted sheet is not totally secure, it will end up dead in a pile on the other side of the room by sunrise. Physical disability can be like that. The parts of me that died come back to haunt the living world when I fall asleep.