He’s taken, and I’m obsessing. Something felt “right” the first time I laid eyes on him; it was like a gut feeling. I KNOW it’s ridiculous, but I just can’t turn off these feelings.

Of course, I can control my actions: I won’t do anything. But what can I do for myself? How can I feel better about this?

I’m stuck in this phase of my life, with no distractions other than burdens and obligations. 😥 He feels so intense, and I get weak around him. I try to avoid being near him, but when it happens, I bet he can tell. What can I do?

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    5 days ago

    That’s what makes it difficult. I don’t want it to look as if I’m avoiding him for who knows what reason (in his perspective), also bc this already led to a weird situation. Not that it would affect his life that much, we’re not friends or anything, but he’s been nice to me and I don’t want to be mean as much as I don’t want to be creepy