sexualanimal@lemmynsfw.com to Ask Lemmy NSFW@lemmynsfw.comEnglish · 1 month agoHow do you handle hot people when in a relationship? I would never act but it sometimes drives me crazy how unbelievably hot some people I pass daily are.NSFWmessage-squaremessage-square18fedilinkarrow-up11arrow-down10
arrow-up11arrow-down1message-squareHow do you handle hot people when in a relationship? I would never act but it sometimes drives me crazy how unbelievably hot some people I pass daily are.NSFWsexualanimal@lemmynsfw.com to Ask Lemmy NSFW@lemmynsfw.comEnglish · 1 month agomessage-square18fedilink
minus-squareNeoNachtwaechter@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up0·1 month ago“Hot” is only on the outside. Treat these people like humans. With normal respect and politeness. Get to know them. You will find that they have their strengths and their weaknesses etc. and even some details that turn you off. “Hot” is going to fade away once you know how real and how normal people they are.
minus-squarebuangsajabah@lemmynsfw.comlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up0·1 month agoMy thoughts too. I think: “man they’re hot. But what if they murder my cats out of jealousy?”
“Hot” is only on the outside.
Treat these people like humans. With normal respect and politeness. Get to know them.
You will find that they have their strengths and their weaknesses etc. and even some details that turn you off.
“Hot” is going to fade away once you know how real and how normal people they are.
My thoughts too. I think: “man they’re hot. But what if they murder my cats out of jealousy?”