Lady Butterfly @lazysoci.al to me_irl@lemmy.worldEnglish · 1 month agoMe_irllazysoci.alexternal-linkmessage-square23linkfedilinkarrow-up11arrow-down10
arrow-up11arrow-down1external-linkMe_irllazysoci.alLady Butterfly @lazysoci.al to me_irl@lemmy.worldEnglish · 1 month agomessage-square23linkfedilink
minus-squareMrScottyTay@sh.itjust.workslinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up0·1 month agoThat’s like the humble brag of toxic traits “My issue is i care about other people’s feelings”
minus-squaresurewhynotlem@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up0·1 month agoIt’s pretty toxic to be too shy for self care. A la The Giving Tree. That tree had issues.
minus-squareMrScottyTay@sh.itjust.workslinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up0·1 month agoNot on this level though, this is like the nice version of a white little white lie. Except instead of being an inconsequential amount of deception, it’s making someone else feel better about themselves on a regular basis.
That’s like the humble brag of toxic traits
“My issue is i care about other people’s feelings”
It’s pretty toxic to be too shy for self care. A la The Giving Tree. That tree had issues.
Not on this level though, this is like the nice version of a white little white lie. Except instead of being an inconsequential amount of deception, it’s making someone else feel better about themselves on a regular basis.