Based on your age I’d guess you have different opinions but what’s your thoughts on women in their 40’s? Would you date one? Sleep with one? What attitude do you expect them to have in bed etc.
I’m a 40yo mother of 2 who has recently become single again. I’m hesitant to get back on the dating/hookup scene. But if anyone does want to chat then my messages are open.
Don’t worry about what people think of you! You now have the freedom to find the true you (if you already haven’t). Take it slow, figure out what you want your future to be like.
If you are just semi close to being a regular person, as a woman, you can always find someone who would sleep with you or date you. Don’t take the first guy (or girls, if that’s your thing) who gives you some attention, thinking that’s all you can get. You will have choices. Of course it’s also okay to take the first person or just ask them to cuddle with you a bit, or pound your brain out until sunrise, if that’s what you need.
Be true to yourself, and don’t try to act a certain way in bed, to try and please others. If you can’t be yourself while being intimate, it’s not worth it (unless you’re into the more exotic stuff, maybe hold back on that the first time!). Don’t worry about how you look while being intimate either. Chill, enjoy relax!
Good luck in your new, and soon to be, better life