Hi,

I am a 24 year old woman who was diagnosed at age 19 with ASPD aka sociopathy/psychopathy, Ask Me Anything.

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    13 hours ago

    How do you feel about society’s view on your diagnosis?

    I’m told I may have bpd and I feel horrible about it, I know bpd people are hated and the support are for people who have to deal with them. However everywhere I read your diagnosis is seen as the worst. Basically looks like a name society came up for people they hate.

    I’m not sure if my reading is correct. How do you think people see it and how do you feel about it? Do you agree with whatever the general opinion is?

    Reading here it seems to be even worse than i thought. If you tell people about they will think you are a murdered/sadist/demon. Just the name they gave you must be harder than whatever symptoms you have…

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      12 hours ago

      “How do you feel about society’s view on your diagnosis?”

      I think our society’s view on ASPD is far too stigmatizing and sensationalised. The majority of people learn about ASPD through entertainment and junk true crime pop psychologists. Even just the word “pychopath” is used as just another word for bad. So many people who claim to be mental health positive completely change their tune when it comes to cluster B personality disorders and not something seem was wholesome like depression or OCD.

      “I’m not sure if my reading is correct. How do you think people see it and how do you feel about it?”

      I love your analysis. People should think of ASPD the same way people think of any other mental illness. ASPD itself is bad but we shouldn’t demonize people who have it. The same way we don’t demonize people with autism or schizophrenia. At the same time we shouldn’t romanticize it. I see a lot of people calling themselves ‘psychopaths’ or ‘sociopaths’ because they think it sounds cool and edgy. They want to think of themselves as the cunning and smart literally me villain from there favourite movie. Not only that just as bad as stigmatizing ASPD it’s just plane cringe as well.

      “Do you agree with whatever the general opinion is?”

      Not at all. The general opinion on ASPD doesn’t come from reality it comes from movies and TV. Most don’t understand ASPD and only think about it as the “evil person” disorder.

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        3 hours ago

        You have a very admirable take on all these questions. It’s hard to believe you have a disorder.

        And on that note, do you think you do? From the comments it seems like you agree you have a disorder that needs fixing and is bad, as you put it.

        I have a hard time with these diagnostics that seem to change a lot (a broken bone had always been a broken bone and needs healing). How far are things just different perspectives or just different personalities or disorders?

        I have many of the same behaviors as people from many “disorders”, and also from the same zodiac sign. If I changed them I would just be another person, not necessarily more healthy. And the same with everyone.

        I’m not sure what I’m getting at. It’s just that you have a much more controversial diagnosis and you seem more mentally stable than the vast majority I hear talking. It makes me question these diagnosis more than I do with myself. But then again, you seem more rational than I am, and with the least socially acceptable diagnosis and you seem to agree with it, so I think it’s just me making excuses for my disorder and it all makes sense…