The problem is not the actions. The problem is your mentality. If you’re trying to train a human being, that sounds pretty f****** terrible. On the other hand, if you’re trying to support for and care for them, it doesn’t sound terrible.
Based on the wording, it sounds like the former, but perhaps you’re just trying to make your post dramatic for the internet and the actual situation is more like the latter. We don’t know, but you do, so act accordingly.
The problem is not the actions. The problem is your mentality. If you’re trying to train a human being, that sounds pretty f****** terrible. On the other hand, if you’re trying to support for and care for them, it doesn’t sound terrible.
Based on the wording, it sounds like the former, but perhaps you’re just trying to make your post dramatic for the internet and the actual situation is more like the latter. We don’t know, but you do, so act accordingly.