• xor@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    1 month ago

    STI… but the problems with people cheating are present in polycules or any other relationship…
    people lie and cheat….

    i’m not saying they’re completely bad and nobody should ever do it (sorry downvoters, you have my blessings), it’s just the kind of thing that concerns me in these scenarios….

    afaik, people tend to do things like get herpes, not tell anyone, and tell people it’s not even worth tripping over… just a lil herpes…

    and as long as your polycule isn’t a closed loop, it’s essentially infinitely large….

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      1 month ago

      Personally I would never be in a relationship with someone who would do that but i am pretty picky with very firm boundaries.

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          1 month ago

          Yeah no one would fuck with me like that besides my family if they had a legit convo with me. Over text is kind of whatever. Its like that Tyler tweet one sec I’ll find it