I get he was mad but he is always ranting to my fiancé like this, this is how he talks. My fiancé really tries to help him, so I converted the messages into text with Google Docs.

My fiancé is really kind to him and he and I are his only friends due to some drama. He also believes that “A” and “M” stopped talking to him because of my fiancé.

  • Aurora@lemmy.ml
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    20 days ago

    Very much so. He seems in emotional pain but very guilt-trippy. This is not okay. 💝 Tell your fiancé to block this dude.

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    Yeah, that’s toxic. I certainly couldn’t handle an adult texting me like that. Maybe if it was a one off thing, but if this is normal behavior just find a new friend. The people in our live’s are a choice. No need to live with that drama.

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    20 days ago

    Yeah if some dude was speaking to my fiancé that way I’d be headed over to his house for a very stern in person talking to about it, and he wouldn’t like it. And it for damn sure would stop there.

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      He only knows him online, sadly, but still. This behavior is awful. I can’t believe someone would say shit like this. My fiancé can join the military if he wants too, he has autonomy.

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        He only knows him online? Then what fucking business is this guys that he’s joining the military? How does that affect this guy at all? Idk you and your fiancé are very different people from me, I’d have stopped speaking to this guy long ago, although he probably would have stopped speaking to me first because of how I would be reacting to these 3 year old temper tantrums aimed at me.

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            I mean if hes just some guy your fiancé knows online and these reactions don’t bother him then whatever let him do what he wants. I wouldn’t give a shit if some guy online reacted to me like this, no matter how good of “online” friends we are. If it’s actually bothering him though then it’s not healthy to allow someone to talk to you like this if it’s actually affecting you.

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                20 days ago

                Tell your husband to grow some balls, he’s gonna be a military man he shouldn’t be putting up with this shit. If my best friend in the world spoke to me this way I’d tell him off. It’s kind of unacceptable behaviour from a grown man.