• meejle@lemmy.world
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    12 days ago

    Neurotypical person:

    • May procrastinate, but can still “decide” to do the task if they put their mind to it
    • Maybe some guilt about the procrastinating
    • Does the task
    • Gets a hit of dopamine, so they feel good and think, “why did I put it off?”
    • Remembers that next time there’s a task

    ADHDer:

    • Get up. Get up now. Please get up and do the task. Why can’t I get up and do the task? I hate myself so much. I’m letting everyone down… Seriously, just do the task, I’m begging you…
    • Major guilt spiral, RSD, feels bad man
    • Does the task
    • Doesn’t get a hit of dopamine, so they feel the same and think, “ugh, why did I bother?”
    • Remembers that next time there’s a task