Femby as an identity

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Transfem@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 18 days ago

I wanted to open discussion about how you relate to it (to those who relate) and how many of you feel identified with it.

I am a transfem who has been transitioning for 3 years and lately I have felt this term pretty close, specially after discovering it from a close person who identifies with it.

It seems other people use it as well and that is why I want to ask here.

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