• Akasazh@lemmy.world
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    11 days ago

    I mean it is wholesome that dad would do that.

    But if you find yourself in situations where you might need an escape like this that often that you make this kind of deal, you might reconsider your friend group because that’s an unhealthy relationship.

    • makeshiftreaper@lemmy.world
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      11 days ago

      Children literally have not had the experience to recognize these situations, their brains aren’t fully developed, and aren’t fully in charge of their own lives. I agree that if you’re doing this often then you may want to have a conversation about how it keeps happening, but it’s much better for a kid to feel like they have a safety net. Otherwise they may stick in the shady situation and end up in more trouble

      • fyzzlefry@retrolemmy.com
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        11 days ago

        I agree with you but the human brain is constantly developing throughout our lives. It’s never fully developed.

    • y0kai [he/him]@anarchist.nexus
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      11 days ago

      eh, its good to have a plan whether or not certain occurances are common.

      I know what to grab (if I can) and where I’m going if my house is on fire because i made a plan. doesn’t mean my house catches fire often, just that I’m realistic about possible dangers and how to respond to them.