As a man, what’s the youngest age you’d date if given the chance?

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    6 days ago

    I live almost exclusively in a bed. If you’re good with that, hit me up. No judging, not even exclusively human. We open.

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        6 days ago

        I’m physically disabled, basically undatable; stuck in social isolation. It is satirical. I’m saying it doesn’t matter, if you can find a match with anyone just do it and be happy. One day you might find yourself in a situation where you actually need people but don’t have anyone or any way out. The numbers are arbitrary and meaningless. There are plenty of elderly children and a few kids out there that run circles around them. If none of us kept track of age, love would be the only relevant metric and perhaps that should be the true ethical measure. All of the Western norms are arbitrary garbage. Nature dictates sexual and cognitive maturity yet Western culture is based on the ideals of child soldiers capable of carrying the kit of murderers while being easily manipulated into foolish stupidity. Child solders are the only reason the arbitrary age of 18 exists and this is the pivot of all cultural norms and ethics. That is not scientific or ethical. Humans are cognitively fully developed at 25, so almost everyone is starting an arbitrary baseline for minimum in a pedantic argument over how kiddie is too kiddie to start. I don’t think there is a such thing as too old or too young. Life is all about making the best of what you have and your opportunities. I lost 8.5 of my 9 cat lives 2/26/14 on a bicycle ride to work. I fought and totaled 2 SUVs that morning but got a broken neck and back in return. I can’t hold posture. I can’t go anywhere and be myself. I’m still fully mobile. I can take care of myself for the most part, but my whole world is pretty much inside these walls. If that interests anyone, hell yeah I’d like to talk. Any company beats none in my circumstances. Most humans are totally unaware of people like me. You are probably making many assumptions about my situation or motivations. I would be doing the same in the inverse situation. The thing is, you are protecting yourself from the reality of how many things can go wrong and how often those things have no effective cure or solution. If you were aware of all the potential problems, you would likely never leave the safety of home. In a school of fish all you ever see are the fish around you are all doing great and everyone is happy. You have never seen a whale, seal, gull, tuna, or shark, never mind the nets of humans, vast deserts, volcanoes, or anaerobic sea.