• moonbunny@sh.itjust.works
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    6 days ago

    I feel a preemptive pain when I receive a message, almost as if I’m going to get yelled at for taking too long to reply or for not fully understanding the message from every contextual angle possible to understand a hidden meaning that I’m supposed to infer from, or for expressing the wrong emotion/tone.

    It even happens when I just see the message notification

    Welp

  • Goldholz@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    6 days ago

    And here i thought this was just me and it came from trauma. Is that really an ADHD thing? Especially with the quick self doubt?

  • Sekoia@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    7 days ago

    Messages from my friends are the one kind of message I don’t do this on, because I’m way too online and also doing anything mean to my friends makes me feel way too guilty (and I mostly fuel my motivation through guilt and fear of failure)

  • xmunk@sh.itjust.works
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    7 days ago

    The spacing between “mis” and “take” is the only thing I can focus on in this meme.