So I’m a guy and recently been thinking about my own sexuality. Started as jokes with friends, stupid stuff like would you date a femboy or stuff like that. But this made me realize I’m okay with dating a dude, or any person of any gender, granted they display traditionally feminine traits such as a higher pitched voice (for males at least), a “pretty”, hairless face.

However I am still very attracted to many different “types” of women, thick, slim, buff or not. But I am only really attracted to males or others that fit the “feminine” archetype. What do you guys make of this?

  • NikkiB@lemmygrad.ml
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    4 days ago

    Bi-curious, but you may find your preferences changing over time. Gender also isn’t an immutable quality of a person. The “straight guy who likes femboys” thing is actually very common. Straight men are attracted to femininity, not necessarily “women.”

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    A guy who’s attracted to people expressing feminine traits? I think that’s called straight, bro. /s

    I’m being reductive, but seriously it’s ultimately up to you what you’d like to identify as. What you’ve describe sounds bi or straight to me though.

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    4 days ago

    The only way to know which pride flag to fly is to put on the sexuality sorting hat. /s

    Srsly though, you’re attracted to whoever you’re attracted to, and I have no reason to make anything of it beyond that.