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  • ElDuderino@lemmus.orgtomemes@lemmy.world•Flawless strategy
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    1 day ago

    I’m just an ape on the internet, but you don’t exactly come across as someone who is content with not dating. The whole context of this thread is a big circle jerk of “approaching women doesn’t work to get dates, women don’t want me. I’m not good enough” etc… You have to risk getting hurt if you’re interested in dating. There’s no way around it. And yes, I’m crude, but you do have to fuck before you fall in love.





  • ElDuderino@lemmus.orgtomemes@lemmy.world•Flawless strategy
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    Social skills are like any other skill. Sure, some have more aptitude for them naturally, but they can be learned. If you really have such poor social skills, I suggest getting a formal diagnosis and seeking out classes to work on it at your local regional center. You will continue to fail as long as you consider social skills as something that others ‘have’ and you ‘don’t have’ and not as a set of perishable skills.



  • ElDuderino@lemmus.orgtomemes@lemmy.world•Flawless strategy
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    2 days ago

    lmao - I’m middle aged and average looking and I haven’t had trouble getting laid since leaving college. It’s not exactly rocket science. Y’all incels need to stop feeling sorry for yourselves and learn the basics of how to convince a lady to hop on your dick.




  • ElDuderino@lemmus.orgtomemes@lemmy.world•Flawless strategy
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    2 days ago

    I was raised on the premise that women want to be left alone I assumed that in time and when ready, they would be the ones to initiate.

    I’m sure you realize now that these are both just incorrect. Get out there and talk to women. Your dick will remain dry until you can master the art of conversing with the opposite sex and making them laugh.