Because when everyone knows that your only play is to support the reds, then the reds themselves know that they can abuse that desperation, renege on deals with you, etc. After all, what other plays do you have?

Dropping the deal is short-term disadvantageous, but by establishing a reputation for punishing allies who don’t uphold their end of a bargain, they can be more influential in the future.

If I was a woman I wouldn’t have dysphoria, no? Unless it altered my body without doing anything to me.

(I guess if it was a sadistic genie it could also alter the brain but not the body, handing out dysphoria without physical change.)