Hanabi - a pretty simple card game in which you work together to put on a fireworks show. You can’t see your own hand, but instead can see everyone else’s. Others give you hints about what’s in your hand so you can make plays.

10-minute dungeon - a kickstarter table top game where you tear through as many dungeons/monsters as possible in 10-minute increments (I think). It’s been awhile since I’ve played it, but I have very fond memories of it.

Then you are not and never were an ally. I have “White Fragility” by Robin DiAngelo on my reading list. You might consider adding it to yours as well