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Cake day: December 7th, 2024

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  • Weird right wingers kept going on about trans people, and I wanted to be informed about it and learned a few things about myself in the process.

    I genuinely had no idea for most of my life. The signs were there all along but only in retrospect. It took me 2-3 years of questioning before I started transitioning. I was not ever truly certain I was trans until I started HRT, and everything started to feel fine, like genuinely fine. Didn’t realize I was depressed from dysphoria my entire life because I had no point of comparison.

    I certainly envy the trans people who were able to learn they were trans at an early age. The best time to transition is just before the start of puberty, the second best time is now.


  • How’d it go? Notice anything?

    Fat will deposit in more feminine places but there is no mechanism to actively remove it from elsewhere. That’s why trans men need top surgery. Hormones can only make they cannot unmake.

    You do burn fat and it is removed everywhere in an impartial way. Expect changes to take time.

    Sometime soon your nipples will start to get sore and hurt. That means things are developing!





  • I thought I was a man for most of my life and I’ve only ever heard a man refer to another male’s upper chest, in a non-insilting way one time.

    It was Mark Twain in some book. It sounded weird and antiquated to my ear like a lot of the language his books.

    Its not common in the modern american english I have encountered. You should speak how you want, but I wouldn’t recommend it. Not because it would clock you, but because there are plenty of insecure men out there who might take offense to it.




  • I love the enunciation. There’s an elegance and poise to the consonants that I wish I could do myself.

    It does however sound inauthentic, mostly in the tone and pitch. The tone is thin, and the pitch range is really compressed. You seem to be speaking as high as possible constantly, so you have no room to raise and lower your pitch during phrases.

    Women’s voices are way lower than many people realize. Your recording is pretty illustrative of why most literature on voice training stress the importance of resonance over pitch.


  • The US did issue passports with an x gender marker. The first one was issued in 2021 after a lawsuit, and the option was on the official paperwork in 2022. Most would usually advise against doing so as many countries do not recognize the X gender, and would deny entry as a result. Be aware of where you want to travel and that those countries are accepting before you commit to the X marker.

    That was before the newest administration. It remains to be seen how things will play out in future as many executive orders will be blocked in the courts. Executive orders are the lowest tier federal legislation, overruled by nearly everything else.