Oh no, you!

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  • The poor have plenty of empathy, even more so than most. It just takes the back seat when priorities are to simply put food on the table the next day.

    Poverty brain is weird. All mental strength is spent on ensuring one’s own survival. And in this regard, acting on empathy comes with a cost. If not financial, it takes your focus away from your own needs. And those needs are so severe that every ounce of resources, monetary or mental, is spent wrestling against one’s own impending ruin.

    Source: Was poor, now I’m not.








  • No. It’s a perfectly natural reaction.

    Having said that, I think you should get back behind the wheel ASAP.

    • I have two friends, both of whom were in accidents. One of them pressured himself into driving again shortly after to get past the PTSD. The other didn’t. Guess which one never drove again.
    • When I had just gotten my driver’s license I did not feel properly safe or in control either. It’s a habitual thing: The more you drive, the better you get at it, and with time the nervousness and uncertainty fades.

    You don’t Need to drive again. But I think you should face your fear and try to move past the current trauma. Simply because being able to drive is useful. After than that, of you don’t really need to drive anywhere, just don’t.