Thanks for sharing. I have a hard time with anger in these circumstances. Lots of life’s not fair, etc. Stuff you don’t need to hear.

We also had a very hard time trying to have a kid. The cycles of hope and disappointment for us wasn’t nearly as bad, but I very much feared what you described. I’m sorry you guys had so many issues and with the severity, it’s heart breaking.

If it wasn’t for the emergency C-section and the OB who was put on earth to bring babies, my wife and son would have died. As angry as I was at the time, I’ve got nothing to complain about now.

It’s hard to understand there’s an opposite side that that, someone has to help people keep living, and provide some hope for another chance. All involved pay a huge price mentality speaking.

Life is nuanced. I wish more people could understand.

Take care.

Um no.

By your logic, you also live in Indiana, with it’s elected officials and thus you also caused this.

Maybe you want to know what I look like so you can do some more…

I also think a long this line as well.

Depending on how people frame this, I’m not interested in hearing people say what others should not do, I’m only interested in hearing how they’re helping.

If a vocal opposer isn’t first offering education, support, food, care, or otherwise bettering someone’s circumstances, I don’t think they are helping. Feels more like judging, and I’m not interested.