Call me Lenny/Leni

It’s nice to meet all you. I am she/her, can speak Toki Pona and English (non-natively), and locatable on Reddit as MozartWasARed. The links at https://discord.gg/sEuSSDz6TQ and https://www.deviantart.com/triagonal/art/My-copyright-policy-and-the-impact-it-extends-into-906668443 are pertinent to me.

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Cake day: June 30th, 2023

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  • I grew up thinking “sympathy” meant the ability to feel sorry for someone while “empathy” meant relatably feeling sorry for everyone, as in you could flashback to the experience someone was going through.

    This is not a default attribute of mine, so when people would ask me about having empathy, I’d say “no, I don’t have that”. This grew into a misunderstanding which grew into a bad aspect of my reputation.

    That said, even with the misunderstanding in mine, I still think our worth comes from our character and that alone. Whether someone mentally is actually in-tune to how everyone else thinks is irrelevant.



  • What rule does it break by the way?

    The rules say

    • Post only about bans or other sanctions from mod(s). (it was about a ban)
    • Provide the cause of the sanction (e.g. the text of the comment). (that’s exactly what I was doing)
    • Provide the reason given by the mods for the sanction. (I did that, and in fact this explains what I was saying about the other person having broken more rules than me, because their rundown was inaccurate)
    • Don’t use private communications to prove your point. We can’t verify them and they can be faked easily. (I didn’t, in fact the only private communication I used was to prove to you I was asked)
    • Don’t deobfuscate mod names from the modlog with admin powers. (I’m that person, so naturally the rule was upheld)
    • Don’t harass mods or brigade comms. Don’t word your posts in a way that would trigger such harassment and brigades. (again, did not break this rule)
    • Do not downvote posts if you think they deserved it. Use the comment votes (see below) for that. (I didn’t do that… but others are doing it to me and you don’t seem to mind)
    • You can post about power trippin’ in any social media, not just lemmy. Feel free to post about reddit or a forum etc. (certainly did not break this rule)

    And yet when I try to ask or bring up how the rules were broken, I get lots of thumbs down but no answers, almost as if there is none. Hence I said the Y might as well be removed.



  • Who ever said I thought people were intellectually inferior to me? Like who? I’m the last person to do that (heck I cheated my way out of my high school finals), I’m just saying people shouldn’t give up once something gets too elaborate. That and maybe work with me when I try to negotiate or work my way to a resolution. You know, as opposed to giving nothing more than a thumbs down to questions that try to address the thing people are stumped by.

    When you say “that does not endear you to anyone”, a thought that comes to mind is the possibility of how many people are judging a book by its cover, and/or thinking they can read between the lines when whatever is between them is all in their head. Especially in a world where people complain of culture shock, it’s kind of inconsiderate in its own way.


  • There is no option, as it stands, to remove people from only part of a community, unless I misunderstand you.

    Considering the whole context, where two other people were removed for reasons, the alternative would have been to just ban those two people and risk receiving complaints on their behalf about the fact the response wasn’t evenly distributed (It was the temporary ban of Person F I was referring to when I said I did it “for understanding’s sake”, referring to the fact I made it only three days which have ended a day ago, not the removal of the comment).

    Person F, although it’s not inaccurate to say they may have spoken in the wrong place at the wrong time, hence the fact it was as temporary as it was, still said something that, given the serious matter and its different steps, could not be ignored.