All this stuff about source and destination and target or whatever hasn’t helped me because those terms are too confusing when it comes to what they do with links. I like to think of it as hitching a new car onto a train. ln is the locomotive, the car that’s already there comes next, and then you link the new one to it.
Naps and be under the water more.
Always a good sign for upcoming projects. Be sure to get rid of the people that do facial animations!
No, you need adjust your expectations. She’s going to interrupt you. Stop taking it personally. That’s your issue, not hers. And don’t act like ADHD is a moral failing with that “improve ourselves” ableist crap. It’s a disability, not merely an inconvenience. If you actually have ADHD that’s bad enough to be diagnosed and medicated, you should know solutions that require sustained effort will never work. If that is a new concept to you, please watch this video, save yourself some mental burdens and negative feelings, and have a better relationship https://youtu.be/4gdpvLQjdrE
Is your wife doing it on purpose? If not, why do you get hurt by it? That seems like way more a you thing than a her thing because you’re placing unreasonable expectations on her to mitigate your negative emotions. The work of both changing her behavior (difficult) and managing your emotional state (impossible) are both put on her plate. That’s what I think is crappy about how you’re describing it. Using your BPD example, it would be like you handing your credit card to somebody in a manic episode and expecting no charges on it and then feeling betrayed and blaming that feeling on the other person when that expectation is unmet. Put a credit limit on the card. Do some CBT about your feelings.
Yep, definitely better than pooping back out the mouth.
I don’t think having symptoms is rude in the same way I don’t think being an amputee is rude or being depressed is rude. Putting that you feel undervalued on your partner because of their symptom is something I would, however.
For me, it’s draining the the point of not being able to do further mental effort for hours after. If you told me to give up my day to reassure, amuse, or otherwise tend to you, I’d tell you to take a hike.
I feel sorry for your wife for being looked down upon as rude for not being able to meet your standards and for not being partnered with somebody that can feel empathy for her.
I’m not quite sure how to say this without coming off as a jerk, but I don’t think it’s admirable that you want others to choose their own discomfort over yours.
Well that was only slightly faster than expected.
Get the other vehicle with the brushed metal exterior.
Not doing this is one of the masking behaviors that drains me the most and why I hate being involved in conversations of 4 or more people.
It often also takes the ability to tease out what things the code is connected to and organizing that information in ways that are useful for making changes without breaking everything.
Not quite sure what you mean. There’s a poly section in it, so it would have to do a weird fractal recursion to overlap itself…
I like cooperative dungeon crawls. Shadows of Brimstone. Warhammer Quest. To a lesser extent Gloomhaven et al.
Sleeping Gods is a story heavy game that has mechanics for x players to each take control of a portion of the crew of a ship.
My local one has a time traveler weekend (I presume others do, too). Trek has time travel, Star Wars does not, but there’s always Storm Troopers etc. Dr Who shows up a bunch, too, which also makes sense.
For all the people that are equating polyamory and ENM in this thread: they are related but are not the same. Swinging, for example, is also ENM. Lots of things are. Here’s a chart and pretty much the only thing here that’s not ENM is cheating.
Hosting a tea party.
Typescript it is!
Sure, let’s get what everybody already knows on record in the legal system that it is definitely a Nazi salute.