• shalafi@lemmy.world
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    1 month ago

    Great reply and spot on to the question! Don’t know how to ask this, but why the need for any lubrication? I’ve had sex with a great many women and only a couple needed extra help. God that question sounds so shitty and intrusive…

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      5 days ago

      Ah, I somehow missed this comment. There are lots of reasons one night need lube, a longer session, a size mismatch, use of toys during, and anal to name a few reasons.

      With enough foreplay anal is possible without lube with an uncircumcised guy, but is definitely not possible with a circumcised guy.

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      1 month ago

      It’s fairly common, especially as women age, to make less lubrication to keep up with demand during sex. Especially with PIV the lubricant is drying out with each thrust.

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        5 days ago

        A reply brought me back to this.

        Nah. I’ve had loads of sex with middle-aged women. They’re every bit as wet as the younger women.

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          1 day ago

          There are definitely plenty of women who have no trouble with producing enough lubrication. However “not making enough lubrication” becomes more common with menopause and perimenopause.