• Seagoon_@aussie.zone
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    22 days ago

    my ex is being a pain, is trying to emotionally manipulate, harass and even subtly coerce

    after so many years all of a sudden he uses the word “we” in an email …lol, first time evah , where was we when he blew ~500,000

    wants my perspective…lol. This is just like in the estranged parents essay, I told him a million times already.

    I am giving no info, nothing he can argue with/pick apart

    on a good note Bill and I are doing well. 😊

    • StudSpud The Starchy@aussie.zone
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      22 days ago

      God they’re a weird bunch, especially when their victims leaves. My ex sent me a reddit dm a few years ago now, no apologies but just saying “we” we’re both to blame.

      Like lol no, no “we” are not.

      Just leave on read where possible. Knowing you’ve seen their message, but won’t respond does a number on those types lol

    • SituationCake@aussie.zone
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      22 days ago

      Good to hear you are doing ok. Separation is never easy. Best hope is it doesn’t get too ugly and that it’s resolved amicably, but even if things get bad, remember your reasons for leaving and that it’s worth it.