• isleepinahammock@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    2 days ago

    The true bigots won’t be convinced for anything, but it’s also ahistorical to call any attempt at optics being a “pick me.” (I know these exact words weren’t used in this comic. Read between the lines.)

    Historically, groups have won the most rights when the majority comes to realize that they’re “just regular people like them.” Look at the gay rights movement. It hit its stride precisely when they stopped listening to the folks that said, “optics don’t matter, we shouldn’t care at all about appealing to straight people.” The decision to focus on marriage rights was a deliberate one. Pushing for marriage was a sign to middle America that gay people were “normal” people that wanted to fit in with society and be left in peace. That push greatly improved attitudes among cis people about gay people. Gay rights succeeded precisely when we stopped listening to the most radical activists that optics didn’t matter.

    It’s the same reason they chose to use Rosa Parks for the bus protest.

    • TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zoneM
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      2 days ago

      I don’t see how a single thing in this comic is “just focusing on optics.” Not allowing children to transition? Staying invisible? Not talking about how JKR is a monster working to strip bodily autonomy away from all women in addition to genociding trans people? Not demanding equal rights?! A vague reference to trying to appeal relatable and normal does not specify what exactly we need to do better. What exactly is the problem with this comic?

      Besides, the even more ignored facet of civil rights movements is how even less optics focused pushes played a necessary part in strengthening the causes of those being “respectable.” Listen to the reasonable one or face the wrath of those pushed to desperation. It’s not like Ghandi succeeded because of nonviolence alone; the violent response to his imprisonment was far more popular and effective because he wasn’t listened to. Similarly, fear of a violent backlash was part of getting the Civil Rights Act passed, as demonstrated by the anti-rioting laws passed in the same breath. The same goes to those who threw bricks at cops when they stormed their bar, or those who rudely harassed lawmakers alongside the respectable push for gay marriage.

      And throughout all of those movements compromising on rights never helped us earn them. When Stacy Abrams agreed to a law that implemented voter ID in an effort to get some federal voting reform pass, not only did it not go anywhere, but now she is on record as having agreed to it. Every time a Democrat says we shouldn’t play sports, the right only gets more rabid in demonizing us. In today’s political climate, the right capitalizes on every compromise, uses every capitulation as an excuse to weaken your position. It’s quite literally better to lose a fight you were never gonna win with your dignity intact than to throw it away in desperation. If you are unwilling to accept this dynamic, you will never build a stong moment for anything.

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      2 days ago

      Optics always matter.

      Only the visible get seen, only the vocal get listened to.

      Anyone who says otherwise has never interacted with normal people.

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          That’s what we are dealing with. ⅔ act in bad faith of our interests, and demand we keep them enriching themselves from our labor.
          We live in a bad faith government.

          • isleepinahammock@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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            2 days ago

            I really don’t know what you’re on about here. I don’t know if you’re making an incredibly bad-faith summary of what I wrote, or if you just had a stroke and kicked into politics repeat mode.

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              2 days ago

              I exemplified the optics politicians use to buy our faith.
              The “regular people” opted their power and rights to the few. We are here, precisely because “regular” people do want to be radicalized by the rich.