Why do people think having kids will solve problems for themselves/others 😂
I mean, if you have kids you can have LAN parties with them. 🤷🏻♂️
If you go directly for a partner who games you can skip the kids and save the time and money needed for gaming. ;-)
Played minecraft over lan for the first time around christmas with the kids ( 8, 6 and 5 ).
It was awesome until our youngest figured out how to pour lava on everyones buildings and refused to stop.
We miss the games the most. Just like with Web1 when the games and websites were built for fun and not engineered to just push us to spend money all the time or keep playing as long as possible by any means necessary.
Come on, those games still exist. They might be overshadowed by a layer of slop but they are still there.
LAN parties were great. We’re living like shit without them.
Source: have wife and kid, still miss it
Man… Same.
Couch co-op is still rad. Don’t know how old your kids are but we play Little Big Planet as a family and it rules
Come over to mine. Bring the gaming rig (I have the monitor and KB+M). Bring the Mrs and kids too…they can chat/play too.
The bigger problem is having time and finding adult friends with similar interests locally. LAN parties can still happen, but finding friends and aligning their calendars is impossible. We’ve moved on from the days of college where time was infinite and responsibilities were low. I do look for “dad gamers” Discord channels (to find peers rather than shouty 19year olds), but have had little luck.
man lan parties were awesome but I do not miss lugging my 19" crt anywhere. and the reason they existed is now moot - we can lanparty from our homes.
I had 11 years basically stolen from me when I married my first wife. She went from “spent time with your friends” to “you spend time with me now” almost overnight. No more LAN parties, no more gaming (because her brother got addicted to WoW and therefore gaming = bad), no hanging out with friends unless she ok’d it (spoiler: never happened), etc.
I should have left, but as a naive Mormon kid, I thought that’s just how it was supposed to be.
I’ve since renounced any religion and am happily remarried. I game with my brothers and occasionally random strangers. It’s great fun, and I can involve my kids.
