He’s taken, and I’m obsessing. Something felt “right” the first time I laid eyes on him; it was like a gut feeling. I KNOW it’s ridiculous, but I just can’t turn off these feelings.
Of course, I can control my actions: I won’t do anything. But what can I do for myself? How can I feel better about this?
I’m stuck in this phase of my life, with no distractions other than burdens and obligations. 😥 He feels so intense, and I get weak around him. I try to avoid being near him, but when it happens, I bet he can tell. What can I do?
Ahh that makes sense, your English is is very correct, just harder to tell with more reserved English speakers. Your situation is certainly very normal and not at all unique to younger folks!
I guess another pragmatic thing people do sometimes is, if they know they’re going to see someone they get weird about, they’ll leverage their refractory period so it’s less intense when they meet.