My dad was a deadbeat, I have no idea what functional fathering looks like first hand.

I have lost my temper at my daughter and thought “That wasnt very Bandit of you.” Made myself go and apologise for raising my voice, talking about why daddy got frustrated and how she should do what I ask or listen better but that doesnt make it ok that I yelled.

God bless that glorious blue bastard for setting me a high bar to aim for.