The idea that anyone makes the sexual identity their whole personality is just bazaar, this is the same with all the people that give hate to LGBT+ people shit because they are straight and everyone should be.
And before people say well LGBT+ do it, they only did it for a movement, if they wernt oppressed they would have never needed this.
I’d argue that sexual expression is insanely repressed, and that celebrating it openly is more in line with the LGBTQ+ movement than you realize.
I mean, look at this thread. We have a majority upvoted comment calling this person mentally ill. Another insinuating that they’re a child predator. Just for being willing to express a non-normative opinion on sexuality. That’s not that different from the right-wing chuds calling trans people mentally ill as the modern stand-in for the r-slur, which in turn is a modern stand-in for “doing a socially unacceptable thing that I don’t like and should be ashamed.”
Personally, I think this person’s choices are in poor taste. But I get it. I get why someone would want to do this in a world where they’re constantly told they’re strange and wrong for the way they’re wired, so long as that wiring doesn’t cause harm to others.
By no means am I saying to repress all of that, but making it the only thing you are thats where I have issues. One sticker, maybe two I would be like I get it. His plate then also everything else, its all they think about or its all they want to be known for.
yeah I also find people that make their job their whole identity, I guess I wouldnt be as hard on those that took their hobby and turned it into a job. But even then I would think, you do anything else, you like to cook, read a book anything. I mean I have the tizm so I know about fixating but I can word vomit on many subjects not just the ones that I latched onto.
The idea that anyone makes the sexual identity their whole personality is just bazaar, this is the same with all the people that give hate to LGBT+ people shit because they are straight and everyone should be.
And before people say well LGBT+ do it, they only did it for a movement, if they wernt oppressed they would have never needed this.
I’d argue that sexual expression is insanely repressed, and that celebrating it openly is more in line with the LGBTQ+ movement than you realize.
I mean, look at this thread. We have a majority upvoted comment calling this person mentally ill. Another insinuating that they’re a child predator. Just for being willing to express a non-normative opinion on sexuality. That’s not that different from the right-wing chuds calling trans people mentally ill as the modern stand-in for the r-slur, which in turn is a modern stand-in for “doing a socially unacceptable thing that I don’t like and should be ashamed.”
Personally, I think this person’s choices are in poor taste. But I get it. I get why someone would want to do this in a world where they’re constantly told they’re strange and wrong for the way they’re wired, so long as that wiring doesn’t cause harm to others.
By no means am I saying to repress all of that, but making it the only thing you are thats where I have issues. One sticker, maybe two I would be like I get it. His plate then also everything else, its all they think about or its all they want to be known for.
I dunno man, I hear foot fetish is the most common fetish … or maybe that was a biased poll, I dunno
Like a day trader?
yeah I also find people that make their job their whole identity, I guess I wouldnt be as hard on those that took their hobby and turned it into a job. But even then I would think, you do anything else, you like to cook, read a book anything. I mean I have the tizm so I know about fixating but I can word vomit on many subjects not just the ones that I latched onto.
woosh my man