Not enough to not victim blame, apparently. And I don’t even recall posturing as a victim of any kind.
I explained why I went forward with it. Getting up the gumption to go get it done that day was an obstacle, and if I didn’t have to overcome that obstacle again, that was better. That was my choice, and I made it, and I would make it again in the same circumstances.
… I hate to victim blame, but there were so many red flags…
Not enough to not victim blame, apparently. And I don’t even recall posturing as a victim of any kind.
I explained why I went forward with it. Getting up the gumption to go get it done that day was an obstacle, and if I didn’t have to overcome that obstacle again, that was better. That was my choice, and I made it, and I would make it again in the same circumstances.
Unless you’re victim blaming for the cancer.