I’m self aware enough to realise I would be a terrible parent, like I would be great and engaging but I am also not really well put together mentally and I think I would suck.
Plus I have no desire to date. Today is my birthday and I’m over 40 and content. 😌
You already sound like you would be a fine parent! At least you recognize you’re not super well put together. Most parents I’ve seen out and about have no clue and think they’re great.
Have kids. You’ll be so busy you’ll forget what day of the week it is until 5 minutes before you’re supposed to go pick your new car up.
…I’m kidding. Don’t do that. Kids are very expensive.
And a big commitment. And people will look you weird if you try to give them back and say you don’t want the deal anymore. You can’t win.
I’m self aware enough to realise I would be a terrible parent, like I would be great and engaging but I am also not really well put together mentally and I think I would suck.
Plus I have no desire to date. Today is my birthday and I’m over 40 and content. 😌
You already sound like you would be a fine parent! At least you recognize you’re not super well put together. Most parents I’ve seen out and about have no clue and think they’re great.
Happy birthday!
Thanks.
Do you want them to have event paralysis for 9 months waiting for that kid to arrive?
Shit. I didn’t even think about that. That’s only for the first one though. After that the months just kind of blend together.