Hi, I’m a canadian woman. This community, well, caught my eye, when I was browsing the list of communities on lemmy.ca. Anyway, given how toxic lemmy is as a whole, I’m really impressed that this is a very nice space you’ve made here. You guys need to spread the detox around more.
Lemme know how I can be an ally I guess
Its funny to me that men’s spaces on the internet often is pretty chill, while the opposite for the other people
Edit, approach us when you have a crush on us, no guy I know does hints well
I think it very much depends on the space and the culture it aims to cultivate. I don’t find them chill across the board.
Oh yes, like the Linux Kernel Mailing List, for instance, renowned for its chill vibe.
Mainly talking about mens leisure groups like dull mems club here on lemmy
Depends. There are plenty of incel spaces all over the internet. There are also countless “boy clubs” (think certain online game communities) that are horribly toxic, especially to those who aren’t male (or weren’t born that way).
True, but often the don’t actively recruit by ads or anything and more happenstance