These are forums with millions of members on mainstream sites such as Reddit, Discord and 4chan. […] and no one – not one man – is calling them out. They’re patting each other on the back.”
Huh? Should we be looking for such things all day long (there are slightly more than one problematic one) and telling them how they suck? Of course they pat each other on the back. The same way fascists do to their kind. What an odd way to think, while making money by selling pictures to exactly such crazy things.
Shit like this needs to be called out by decent men, directly to the faces of the offenders. Challenge their belief that all men are like that. It’s so disheartening to know that I stand out amongst the crowd for treating women with basic dignity and respect. I try so hard to teach my boys about respecting boundaries.
But called out how? An asshole spread a private picture, next to nobody is going to know who this person was. Those who know him are less likely to act and might even believe a story he told.
Then others share it and the best you can do is say “fuck off” when someone sends a rather random picture to you.
Yes, exactly like that. Whoever shares a picture with you. Whoever brags about it. “Did she give you permission to share this? Prove it! No? That’s not ok. I’m letting her know.”
TLDR. She had boobs at 10 and people noticed.
Congratulations on being a part of the problem
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