This one lady is considered very kind. She is to most people, that’s why they consider her this way. The lady’s friend says they’re the problem if the lady is mean to them.

I’ve been treated very badly for having learning disabilities and attention problems. Rather than talk to me and try to help me, this lady tried to beat me up, wants to hurt me, and is now ignoring me because she said she hates me and blocked me. I’m happy without her, though.

Is it possible that she can act like this and still be a good and kind person despite hating people with problems and being a bit homophobic?

  • FoxyFerengi@lemm.ee
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    2 days ago

    People don’t always make sense in their actions, and you might be trying to spend more effort understanding her than she is worth. Many people only have shallow “relationships” or interactions with each other, so it’s possible that people you know have not gotten to know her beyond social pleasantries.

    Have you heard about Mother Theresa? How she was such a good and holy person because she dedicated herself to the poor and sick? That when she died, the was a huge movement around the world to have her become a saint? Well, the world knows now that she was cruel to all those people. And she was using her position to continue abusing people that she felt were lesser than her.

    It’s pretty clear from this post, and your other posts, that this lady is not safe for you to be around. Saying that you don’t want to be around someone should be enough, and you do not have to explain to anyone why you do not like her. I hope you have people in your life that can help keep you safe