Yesterday, I tried talking things out with someone in hopes I could salvage a relationship, but this is how she responded because I interrupted her conversation and because of my poor social skills. I kind of think this is my fault even if she shouldn’t have responded this way. I’m reporting this woman and cutting all contact with her, by the way.

rude messages

  • strawberri@sh.itjust.works
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    1 day ago

    hear other ppls sides for once lol. she is a creep and her issues make things bad for her. people like her truly are dogs

    • lemmy_user_838586@lemmy.world
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      1 day ago

      You know what doesn’t get people on your side? Calling austic people dogs. There’s literally no world where you’re the good guy for saying that. When you think to yourself “how are all of these people on the internet taking their side??” Thats why. You are not the better person in this scenario.

  • isa__@sh.itjust.works
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    1 day ago

    lmfao this is my text messages. she posted these without my consent. people, this woman is named rose and she’s been harassing me for a while like a damn creep.

    i didn’t actually think she’d report me or post abt it, but its very typical that she did ig. 🤣

    i found out from a friend of hers that she uses lemmy, and when i went to this post to find the messages, surely, it was our text convo. i have seen this username before, actually.

    no, i tried to be friends with her but her inability to read social cues and the fact that she cared about me SO DAMN MUCH pissed me off. only a cree would think that much of me, or a lesbian with a crush on me. why not both? 😀

    lol this user is such a creep and she has “autism” which make it worse. she sometimes stutters and can’t even talk properly when i talk to her so she’s a freak and probably so in love with me she gets nervous to talk to me.

  • .Donuts@lemmy.world
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    I kind of think this is my fault

    Please don’t. They sound absolutely unhinged, and I am not just saying that lightly.

    Obviously I don’t know whatever happened between you, but this level of abuse is insane. Report them, block them and don’t acknowledge them any further. And please stay safe.

    • lemmy_user_838586@lemmy.world
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      1 day ago

      Agreed OP, you’re not to blame for this, and this person is definitely unhinged.

      I assumed reading the beginning that the OP was male, because she called them a stalker creep, but then towards the end she’s going off on lesbians, so it sounds to me this person is a closeted lesbian/bi/whatever and OP female as well? and she probably had feelings for OP, but then something happened where they were hurt by OP (she even says so in one her unhinged rants) and then later OP says they have a handsome new boyfriend.

      Maybe this isn’t the case, (and I also have no experience with this myself, I’m straight) but this person definitely seems like a closeted lesbian that got their feelings hurt and is lashing out. Doesn’t make any of this any less unhinged or crazy, I’m just assessing the situation as i see it from an outside perspective with literally no other background info or context.

      • isa__@sh.itjust.works
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        im not unhinged nor a lesbian. im straight.

        im also a Christian so i cant be one nor support it anyway.

        this creep has asked me before out of curiosity and i told her the same thing. i think she asked this because she’s into me 😂 well i told my friends to stay the hell away from her and now we all despise that bitch.

        im straight but the way she acts is creepy, harassment, and it makes me think of a guy being attracted to me a lot, except she’s a woman! thus i said she was a lesbian who was into me. i didn’t even know about her bf.

        i just want her to leave me alone, but i never told her that because i wanted to be nice and i pitied the dog.

        • lemmy_user_838586@lemmy.world
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          No normal person reacts this way to this situation. I’m not saying this to be mean: get some mental help. If you believe you’re being stalked, harassed, whatever, threatenng to kill the person and going off on biggoted rants about lesbians and autistic people is not the way you should be handling that, or is the way a true christian should behave.

          Get. mental. help.