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Cake day: July 2nd, 2023

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  • I mean, I still totally probably would.

    Back in my drinking days, I definitely would have taken her home at last call.

    I didn’t comment about her body in that comment.

    Anyhow, with caveats, I would totally make that comment in front of the right crowd. I’ve been to a lot of kink parties and drag shows. Cis-het peeps don’t have a monopoly on catty coments.

    If someone wears a shirt with a sexual statement on it, then others will make sexual statements about them.

    I didn’t even think about the Luigi/Italian thing until I read it in a comment. To me, that shirt said that she has sex better than people who aren’t Italian.

    I did make a deleted comment referring to her Botox or plastic surgery and that I considered it a red flag. I find uncanny valley plastic surgery profoundly unattractive. I don’t remember exactly what I said. It was flippant and arguably objectification.

    So, I misread the room and my joke was poorly received. I haven’t read the rules for shitposting or whatever and would not be surprised if I violated a rule.

    From my view, the shirt with a funny sexual statement invites other sexual statements. I think that anyone that denies that the slogan is a double entendre is naive at best. The level of outrage amusing.



  • Oh hey, I’m in this screenshot making an off-color comment. We can debate misogyny and such, probably won’t be very productive.

    The thing I find interesting in this: “Italians Do It Better” is an inherently sexual statement. Everyone knows that IT is sex and maybe some other reference with this style of bumper sticker meme. That’s what makes it funny. So then, is it wrong to make a sexual joke about someone who is wearing a funny sexual statement? I don’t think so.

    If she were wearing a plain tee or some other logo, I wouldn’t make a sexual joke. This feels like white knight silliness to me.


  • No single men allowed. (Unless you’re holding a gangbang or a gay orgy.) Thirsty dudes will overwhelm your orgy. In general, you need to be a hetero couple, lesbian couple, or single woman to get into the swing scene. If you’re a gay man, and you have trouble finding gay orgies, there is probably something socially or physically bad wrong with you.

    It’s a stereotype, but gay guys know how to party and don’t fuck around about fucking around.

    See if there is a local swingers group on FetLife.

    The best orgies just kind of spontaneously happen. You usually have to have a close knit core of friends. After parties for kink events and such.

    Sharing Ecstasy/MDMA with close friends can make one happen.

    Oh, and trim your fingernails.