just a guy that might be a gal
But I know for a fact I’m not a Honda Accord

im figurin shit out on the fly
definitely very bi

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Cake day: October 16th, 2026

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  • you live in a country with a functional social support system thank god, that could have been significantly worse

    But like. That is EMT’s job, to check on and take care of people. I’ve known a couple of them and I guarantee they did not find you annoying or a waste of their time. if anything, it was probably the best call theyve gotten all month. 90% of the time they’re responding to the worst day in anyone’s life, or the last day. They deal with true psychriactric breaks, violent patients throwing bodily fluids at them, car accidents, or having not made it there in time. All sorts of mind bending things.

    For them to get a call from someone who CARES ABOUT YOU enough to want to make sure you’re ok, then they find you alive and well (albeit down in the dumps), and ultimately have support to stay that way- that’s why they do it. Literally. You are the reason they chose to be an EMT in the first place.


  • I dont have any better answers than what other people already shared here but you’re not alone girl <3

    you are not useless and you are not a burden, you deserve to exist no matter what form that existence is. Because at the end of the day we’re all just meat sacks on some fuck ass backwater floating rock, trying to project some meaning onto the leftover corpse of a star. So go take care of your bf, get some good love and affection, and take a cuddle nap. It’ll be alright.




  • Is your mirror thing where you also stand there and stare at yourself and feel like, mental switches gradually flipping to where you actually see yourself as feminine/a girl and not just surface pretending/hiding? Cuz that’s kind of how I felt.

    Get a skirt girl!! I could recommend the Amazon one I got, it feels pretty nice although maybe a little bit short (it’s about 15")








  • And that makes perfect sense! I was (slowly) reading the gender dysphoria bible earlier and the discussion about how actual hormone levels being incongruent with the brain’s neural wiring will cause dysphoria made sense. So it matches how a drug that blocks T effects would cause regulat cis men to then have depression and all the other fun stuff we get to deal with.

    I’ll have to look into it.





  • Super LPT: Get some KT (Kinesiology) tape! Its body safe elastic tape that is used for things like wrapping joints to support them after an injury, but has many other uses.

    My GF has small tits and a lot of muscle so she doesn’t fit in basically any bra ever made, at all. A single strip of KT tape vertically keeps the nipples from showing or being rubbed raw all the time, but retains the titty shape.
    And you can keep it on for a couple days per use, without needing to remove through showers and exercise since it is breathable, meaning one roll of tape goes a long ways.