- 1st panel : spongebob in a stand caption reads “Single trans woman”
- 2nd panel : a huge crowd gathered around spongebob
- 3rd panel : spongebob adds a little paper on his table saying “I don’t use my penis”
- 4th panel : the whole crowd left.
I’m a gigahon and way too ugly for any partner, appearently no man wants to date an ugly girl with a dick, that looks like a man
Long time ago Ally McBeal aired an episode where everyone had a problem with a dude dating a trans person (not sure if the nomenclature).
They all had a problem with her having a dick. The dude dating her didn’t have a problem with it. But somehow everyone made it into a problem where there wasn’t one before.
I just don’t understand how or why it was anyone else’s business to begin with. Culture social whatever nonsense reason they used to get involved was weak and shallow.
Kinda showed how people will rationalize sticking their nose in where is doesn’t belong.
Honestly I’ve been too agoraphobic since COVID to even really put in the effort. I have Bumble sitting on my phone with no profile filled out and that’s as far as it’s gotten.
But like, even the first panel sounds like kind of a boost. 😅
I’m in this picture, and not as part of the crowd :/
Have my upvote.
Wild… Those people are missing out!
Are people actually that sex-centered?
More than you would think, my previous partner evidently was. she was pretty great but never understood my bottom dysphoria. and always assumed I had “male” desires.
You’d get a pretty similar bottom right as a straight cis guy or girl if you wrote “I don’t use my penis/vagina”, maybe a few more than zero, but not much.
Please hyphenate the words “bottom” and “right”…it took me too many tries to figure out how to parse that in this context.
Well, I guess you’d also get a pretty similar bottom as a straight cis guy or girl if they wrote “I don’t use my penis/vagina”, so it’s probably not wrong even if you read it wrong.
Not trans but I think the issue is more that there’s a lot of chasers. My opinion comes entirely from the many I saw on Grindr so take that with a metric ton of salt.
That’s why I got a strap-on
Single trans men just get the 4th panel fml
I dig dating trans men. I get to talk about motorcycles and guns and they usually want to help work on cars or motorcycles with me. Hang out in the woods and shoot rocks and in general do gross dangerous stuff together. For context I’m a cis bi sub
This is why I’ve personally dropped it. I can’t do HRT, bottom surgery is out, political trouble isn’t worth it, and I’ve already been turned down just for using the pronouns he/him. To add, I am in fact a bottom and straight. That little bit of self love doesn’t really feel worth it in my case.
Please don’t take offense to this I’m just trying to follow: straight in this context means you’re attracted to?
I’m attracted to men and my type is usually straight so my chances of finding someone who would want me as a trans man is already slim.
A man is usually considered straight when they are attracted to women
Valid, I stopped T a week ago after 15 years and I’m playing around with the idea of detransition. At this point I feel I would be happier.
Lots of great and bi guys are into trans men. What is your experience?
My experience is that gay men want penis and bi men want to bottom. I’m strictly a bottom so that’s probably not helping my chances.
As a vers guy I prefer a long term partner with a penis, but would hookup with a cute trans guy for sure. The tops I know would date trans guys.
Send your tops this way please
Haha no. Find your own 🥴
Probably not helping your chances, no, but…
waves bi guy here, the back is fun and all but I’m all top. We do exist (cue m&m/santa commercial)
If you don’t mind me asking (seriously if it makes you uncomfortable or you just don’t want to talk about it ignore me) have you gotten/do you enjoy receiving blowjobs? I’ve only sucked a trans guy’s cock once but I liked it a lot and before that I never really thought about the logistics
Not sure that this is the thread for that, but I’m happy to answer whatever in PMs.
Ah, thought this was in a different community and didn’t realize this was an explicitly SFW space! My bad
Never realized chasers wanted to bottom, neat
I mean, isn’t that part of the whole thing? They want to get railed without it being gay?
Moooood
Like, dude, I’m still down to penetrate you, as long as you don’t mind me using a strap on
Can I use your penis? I mean, if you’re not going to… 🤷🏻♂️
Wait so all of these guys want back shots?
I’d let a dude rail me but he has to be cute and play video games with me after
Getting railed by a guy: GAY!!!
Getting railed by a trans woman: straight but also woke
🤷♂️
Achieving public acceptance, one pounding at a time
I mean if some calls that also gay, that is transphobic.
Depends who’s being railed. (Also, there are a great many ways people use the word “gay”.)
…I’ll just have the first and fourth panels please… >_<
I’ll just be having you please >.<
Wait until you say you don’t have one or a libido
Snuggling is better than fucking anyway
Agreed, I personally only like platonic cuddles :3
Sure sounds better to me; id like to not think about my jumblies tyvm
Amen 🙏🏻
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At some point I think it’s just better not to tell people you’re trans , like If you have a neovagina and pass there is literally no visible difference.
Not if you’re actually looking for a happy partnership. It’s one thing if it actually doesn’t come up, but if you’re hiding it from a partner, well, you’re hiding an aspect of your life from your partner.
That sounds rather dangerous. There seems to be a not-insignificant number of people who would get irrationally angry at being tricked into having “gay sex” and thus being turned gay, and the only way they know to ungay themselves is through violence.
I dont understand how you guys think its okay to trick someone like that. How can you not respect a partner like that? How would it be irrational to be very upset by that?
I say irrational to describe the degree of anger. Being upset about it? Sure. I don’t expect to understand it, but I can accept that it’s upsetting to some people.
Non-consensual sex is pretty egregious… I hope you understand that.
Of course. There’s the obvious requirement of consent before the act and continuous consent throughout the course of the act. Things become a lot less straightforward when it comes to revoking consent after the fact. I’m not convinced that violence is ever warranted in these scenarios.
Violence is never warranted but theres no confusion about consent. You cant get consent if you arent giving the terms to consent to. Consent means an understanding. This isnt iTunes terms and conditions.
Bottom surgery leaves a fair few scars, and neovagina’s don’t always function in the same way. This might work for trans women that are straight, but I doubt it would work for those that are sapphic. Someone’s going to notice if they’re eating you out (please enjoy my dumb joke about men not giving head).
I had bottom surgery 7 years ago, and my scars are pretty much invisible these days.
That being said, I still don’t think people would mistake it for a cis vagina in the long term
I’ve heard that even a gynecologist could be “fooled”, there is a lot of info about neovaginas out there I’m not sure what is true and what isn’t :/ (Joke enjoyed c: )
Thats so gross
I have no desire to blend in to cishet society. I spent too long hiding in a closet to just get in to a new one, even if it is more comfortable than the old one
You make a good point 👍🏻 I was moreso arguing for not disclosing you’re trans in situations it might be difficult. I whole heartedly agree with you otherwise<3
But an audible one 💀 though the perception by others varies for me
I mean, a bunch of trans girlies have no distinguishable audible difference to cis women unless I’m missing your joke
There is no joke that’s just personal experience
