If you had the chance to create ur dream partner, what kinks are must haves? What ones are u willing to teach ur partner? What kinks are things that are dealbreakers if they aren’t into?

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  • RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.com
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    8 days ago

    When a guy is rough or pushy in bed and obviously getting turned on by it, or even turned on by its effect on me. But really if someone hits me and it makes him hard it’s ridiculously effective.

  • LordKitsuna@lemmy.world
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    7 days ago

    Just open to trying anything once. Lots of stuff i haven’t tried so don’t know if I’m into it or not. I do know i like eating out both front an back, and occasionally i like watersports (receiving) but otherwise I’d have to try and a partner down to do anything at least once would be neat

      • shalafi@lemmy.world
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        8 days ago

        Rape play. More of a common feminine desire that most men know and/or will admit. Broadly speaking, women like the man to be dominant, it’s just a matter of degree.

      • lazyneet@programming.dev
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        8 days ago

        Consensual non-consent is a fairly common kink practice. None of my partners have been terribly rapey but maybe one day…

  • FistingEnthusiast@lemmynsfw.com
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    9 days ago

    I’m pretty lucky

    My woman and I have compatible desires

    She never thought she’d enjoy being fisted, but on her first try she fell in love with it!

  • ProteanG6777@lemmynsfw.com
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    8 days ago

    Kink of mutual interest to name a few: D/SM (not into the B side of things), ANR for sure! Free use , Somno,etc

  • FetishBoothNumber7@lemmynsfw.com
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    8 days ago

    Dream kinks for my partner to have would be CNC, full time free use, somno, intox, primal and public play. Maybe ddlg but I could live without it.

    I’m flexible in my desires and can be satisfied with less extreme kinks so dealbreakers are few and far between for me, but I lose interest in sex fast if they aren’t excited to / regularly dom me

  • sasoni75@lemmynsfw.com
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    8 days ago

    Kinks must have would be: Pegging, Consensual non-consent, whipping spanking, chastity, Consensual non-consent. Deal-breakers would be: Bi-stuff(forced or MMF), water sports, scat.

        • dnick@sh.itjust.works
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          5 days ago

          Seems like it. It was worded a little unusual so not terribly surprising, but technically you said it’s a deal breaker if they’re not into x, y and z. :)