Recently, our daughter (17 in June) told my wife and me that she has started dating not 1, but 2 guys. No introductions needed since we already know them; they’ve been close friends of hers for quite some time now. Daughter put it as: why do I have to choose if I like them both and they don’t mind sharing?

I just don’t like it.

  • You’re not a bad person, but neither is she?

    IMHO, If they’re caring, respectful and fully aware of the situation who am I to judge.
    Keep in mind… most other teens would have ended up doing exactly that, but without telling either guy nor you.
    I think that’s quite mature and level-headed of her to have been upfront about this actually. 🤷‍♂️