• Cryophilia@lemmy.world
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    1 day ago

    Has anyone ever met a woman who was really into having her toes sucked? It’s always dudes with this fetish

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      No, but a lot of women are really into giving pleasure to their partners, whatever that might entail (within boundaries). So if a guy is really into feet and shows it, there’s a decent chance his partner will get off on indulging his fetish. Plus, I assume foot fetishists give the best foot massages.

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        Right, and I assume that’s the vast majority of whatever women these guys are satisfying their fetishes with (aside from women paid for it).

        But it’s still odd the fetish itself is so overwhelmingly male.

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    The idea that anyone makes the sexual identity their whole personality is just bazaar, this is the same with all the people that give hate to LGBT+ people shit because they are straight and everyone should be.

    And before people say well LGBT+ do it, they only did it for a movement, if they wernt oppressed they would have never needed this.

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      I’d argue that sexual expression is insanely repressed, and that celebrating it openly is more in line with the LGBTQ+ movement than you realize.

      I mean, look at this thread. We have a majority upvoted comment calling this person mentally ill. Another insinuating that they’re a child predator. Just for being willing to express a non-normative opinion on sexuality. That’s not that different from the right-wing chuds calling trans people mentally ill as the modern stand-in for the r-slur, which in turn is a modern stand-in for “doing a socially unacceptable thing that I don’t like and should be ashamed.”

      Personally, I think this person’s choices are in poor taste. But I get it. I get why someone would want to do this in a world where they’re constantly told they’re strange and wrong for the way they’re wired, so long as that wiring doesn’t cause harm to others.

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        By no means am I saying to repress all of that, but making it the only thing you are thats where I have issues. One sticker, maybe two I would be like I get it. His plate then also everything else, its all they think about or its all they want to be known for.

      • MotoAsh@lemmy.world
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        1 day ago

        I dunno man, I hear foot fetish is the most common fetish … or maybe that was a biased poll, I dunno

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        yeah I also find people that make their job their whole identity, I guess I wouldnt be as hard on those that took their hobby and turned it into a job. But even then I would think, you do anything else, you like to cook, read a book anything. I mean I have the tizm so I know about fixating but I can word vomit on many subjects not just the ones that I latched onto.

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    2 days ago

    It’s good they like feet so much since there’s going to be hundreds of them between this person and public places like schools.

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      See, comments like this…

      Yes, because having a visible sexual fetish deviating from normalcy makes them a child predator. Fuck off with these chud talking points.