• ChaoticNeutralCzech@feddit.org
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    27 days ago

    What?! Is @Miisha@lemmy.blahaj.zone gone again?

    😨

    Edit: personally, she’s going to be fine, for the next few days at least.* Has she given up on Lemmy? See my latest post for details…

    * Edit edit: as per her alt, @McUberStein@lemmy.zip, I can now publicly say her BF had an injury. I was very worried the consequences might be disastrous, which is why I messaged her to offer emotional support, but he’s likely going to fully recover.

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      27 days ago

      Devastating news for the unemployed.

      Edit: Keep piling on me instead of the person that fucking doxxed her. Holy shit this really is just Reddit 2.0 for a bunch of sweaties to salivate over a trans girls hornyposting.

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        27 days ago

        Keep piling on me instead of the person that fucking doxxed her.

        At least they were doing so in the interest of helping her. You were attacking her for no fucking reason beside your own ego.

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          24 days ago

          Yes, I did what it took to help her and it worked. The police here are mandatory high-school-educated and very good at de-escalation, and in a situation of “her word against mine” (she hadn’t started carrying out the plan; they didn’t want proof from me, that can be easily faked) they couldn’t do anything to her legally. All of the 20+ Czech cops I’ve interacted with in my life were reasonable and didn’t abuse their positions to be mean or angry or go beyond what protocols allow them to do.

          I wouldn’t have done it if I could have visited her but my bigoted Mom wouldn’t let me (it’s only a few days later that my therapist told her she’s overly controlling, which made her slightly relax this). I consulted Mom (she’s still quite close to me) and she said it was the right thing to do. My psychiatrist, psychologist and German teacher, who I confided in, all agreed.

          Also, of course I wouldn’t if I had contacts to Miisha’s close ones who could call her or visit and offer hugs for example, which the police can’t do.

          By the way, neither Miisha nor me considers this “doxxing”. I don’t know her address and couldn’t find it out if I tried. The police found it in their database and kept it secret from me. If I had known her brother’s phone number and used it to make him visit her, without me showing him the posts or him telling me her address of course, would you consider this doxxing?

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        27 days ago

        Fuck like they legitimately did this at almost the exact same time that I posted, didn’t they?

        This is the worst thing I’ve ever done and I’m sorry

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          27 days ago

          I think my DM to her may have caused this, actually…

          CW: self-harm

          it’s not bad itself (not gonna tell what’s up, it’s up to her to share why her situation* has me worried to the point of reaching out to Lemmy, which she’s just been actively using but hasn’t opened Matrix in a while; to be clear it’s not grave danger) but it made her open the chat last used when she expressed suicidal ideation and I pretended to want to visit her, as police wanted me to find out where she is so they could do a wellness check. She didn’t want to ever see it again and went with the nuclear option…

          * Edit: this is the situation in question

          Edit: Miisha insists this was not why she deleted her account. It’s clear she was already in distress so I’d say I wasn’t the only factor but given the timing, it was probably the last straw

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            27 days ago

            Damn I joke about killing myself all the time and none of y’all have ever tried to dox me for my own health.

            Guess I’ll just die then. I’ll leave my account up tho, I’m not a monster.

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            27 days ago

            you manipulated a trans woman into giving you her address so you could call the fucking cops on her? what the fuck?

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              27 days ago

              No, I don’t have her address or means to find it. (Even if I go to her neighborhood, I have no idea what name to look for on doorbells: likely her BF’s, which I don’t know.) She once slipped up and revealed her name (I then gave her mine to make her feel less insecure, even though unlike hers, it’s basically linked to my address, which she can find with not too much effort). By learning she was at home, I could tell the police her name and neighborhood (which she voluntarily shared, much like I had told her which little village I live in), and they used their database to find her, knock on the door and ask if she was fine. I did not present any evidence so they had no reason to do anything more than a wellness check. It may feel weird but our police is very much unlike US cops. Look at other comments, I think it did make her uncomfortable (mainly the disappointment that I’m not actually coming, revealing the trick the police told me to use) but it was justified what I did, given that − as many now agree − the alternative was genuine, high suicide risk. (See the post she made that day: she was even more desperate in DMs to me.) This was a real emergency, and I did the bare minimum…

              Don’t forget that Miisha didn’t find me creepy at all when we met, which is not foolproof but still a kind of validation that I’m not a lunatic who would harm her…

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    27 days ago

    Logging in to downvote and block serial reposters like Miisha. Seriously, how can anyone have so little of a life to post as often as they do?

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      27 days ago

      Seriously, how can anyone have so little of a life to post as often as they do?

      You’re in the same place the rest of us are. Who are you to cast stones in glass houses?

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        27 days ago

        There’s a difference between scrolling and commenting sometimes and being addicted to social media/posting. Ignorant to think they’re equitable in any way.

        Edit: and so many people on Lemmy talk about how there needs to be less serial reposters and more genuine content. If they want to spam instances, create their own and feel free to do so. Most people don’t like seeing the same people posting over and over and over, it doesn’t seem genuine.

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          27 days ago

          You are directly benefiting from people posting content though.

          What’s the point in being mean to someone over posting on a social media site that you use yourself?

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          27 days ago

          and so many people on Lemmy talk about how there needs to be less serial reposters and more genuine content. If they want to spam instances, create their own and feel free to do so. Most people don’t like seeing the same people posting over and over and over, it doesn’t seem genuine.

          Your fingers work, don’t they? Just block the users you don’t want to see.

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                27 days ago

                No, it was to call out a serial reposter and let people decide for themselves. But you don’t like that. And you also immediately started attacking Miishas alt and jumping down their throat in another post. Seems like you’re the one who likes to hurt people intentionally.

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                  27 days ago

                  Logging in to downvote and block serial reposters like Miisha. Seriously, how can anyone have so little of a life to post as often as they do?

                  Keep telling yourself this was a neutral statement just to inform people.

                  I jumped down their throat because they were talking shit about Miisha, much like you. I immediately updated my comments when realizing it was her talking terribly about herself after users like you were attacking her.

                  I don’t mind throwing vitriol back at mean people, no.